child growing up, psychological growth is very important. Very sensitive to small children, parents in early childhood, we should be more careful patience, starting from the details. Do not inadvertently hurt the child's heart!
1. "It's like your child to do such a big thing to do!"
When a 5-year-olds because they are not things you want to cry, or a four-year-old child refuses to honestly sit on the bus when he is in fact doing his kids this age "should" do the thing.
Of course, if the child behave more to mature, sensible, decent, parents will be satisfied and happy, but when you ask him "reasonable" when you are actually not clear why he is there such "unreasonable "behavior causes before they say such words with blame nature. At this point, you really care about, in fact, bring your children affected (so you embarrassed or awkward). Truly to care about his feelings, to understand him and to give him enough sympathy and compassion - he is not to stay here because we feel very depressed? Or he was hungry?
2. "You're a worthless child!"
and kids joke, seems like a good ability to develop his sense of humor is a good method, but such as "You forgot again tighten the cap, you is not never mind ah!" kind of "joke", but it may make children feel hurt or discouraged. While some parents think, so laugh at kids, maybe he will be exposed to more complex relationships will help - because he had such a "training" and become "strong"! This is wrong. As parents, your task is to love him, support him,coach2013夢幻新款目錄, help him, teach him, and should not put this pretentious "frustration training" hidden in the "joke" here. If my heart was not really think he was stupid and useless, then please do not say that.
3. "how do you not like his home like a child ah!"
compared with others that the child the way, the most direct effect is achieved, let the children feel like second-class citizens, while with others, he intensified antagonism. Maybe the parents want their children through this comparison can be more obedient or more hard to learn, but it will reduce the child's self-confidence in addition to outside,Remember that parents can never say four sentences, will not have a better effects. The more you say he can not, he will be more felt not. Parents want to believe that the child's strength, but also to address the child's weaknesses. Boot concerned about their child's behavior,coach2013夢幻新款目錄, develop or improve, is the right way.
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